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Justification of glorifying god through marriage - 11/13/2009 2:00:35 PM   
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Hey! I'm a college student at a baptist private school. Today my professor was talking about the Oneida community and how they believed in complex marriage where they are all married to one another. I asked him how they justified glorifying God trough this type of marriage. He didn't understand so I went on to say that as Christians, we are called to glorify God in all we do. Marriage is not meant to bring happiness and contentment to ourselves but is meant to further glorify God. He asked me where I "got off thinkig that our purpose was to glorify God and where the bible promotes marriage as somethig that should glorify God" he didn't like what I had to say, so I decided to do some extra research this weekend for him. He claims that marriage is only a contract- thus basically what Moses says in tr new testament, but Jesus says differently in Mark. Any helpful insight? Have a blessed day!
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RE: Justification of glorifying god through marriage - 11/13/2009 3:50:31 PM   
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mariage isnt a contract it is a covenant. Also the Bible says that marriage is to be one man and one wife, thus we cannot be married to loads of different people, that is just an excuse for sexual immorality.
Mariage should bring Glory to God but God gave us marriage to be a good thing for us, for having children, for companionship, for a place to have sex, for friendship, for support and love to be shared. Yes I do believe that God wants us to be happy in marriage otherwise whats the point of being married? That doesnt mean that we will always be happy all of the time but to be in an unhappy marriage is like being in jail.
God Bless
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RE: Justification of glorifying god through marriage - 11/13/2009 4:30:01 PM   
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Welcome to the forum, Erin!

I think Herestoresmysoul has it.

Look in Scripture where it says over and over, "Blessed is he..." That can be accurately translated to "Happy is he..."

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Marriage is not meant to bring happiness and contentment to ourselves but is meant to further glorify God.


God's goal for us is to be holy. Along that way He gives happiness, or rather, joy. He explains that marriage is for preventing fornication and for producing godly children - something we need, something He wants. Yes, everything we do in obedience glorifies God, but God looks out for us, too. He knows we are but dust.

Go look at Song of Solomon, which is a barely-disguised marriage manual. Those people don't look like they are grimly gutting out their duties as spouses.

I'm afraid I lean more towards what your professor said, as much as I understand what he said.

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RE: Justification of glorifying god through marriage - 11/13/2009 5:07:06 PM   
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Also the Bible says that marriage is to be one man and one wife,


Actually, it doesn't explicitly come out and say that. The qualifications for elders and deacons states that they are to be the husband of one wife, but there isn't a general statement for all Christians.

However, that said...

There's still the law of the land. Currently, laws in most countries in Europe and the Americas prohibit polygamy. Going against these laws would be going against God-given authority in an area in which we wouldn't be disobeying God by following the law.

To the OP:

This man is teaching in a Baptist school?? How can he NOT agree that our lives (and our marriages) are to glorify God??

There's the Ephesians 5 principle about how our marriages are a reflection of the union between Christ and the Church. Is Christ united to more than one Church? Is the Church united to more than one Christ? No - one Christ, one Church. And the reflection of that is one husband, one wife.

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RE: Justification of glorifying god through marriage - 11/13/2009 6:24:09 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ta_mosquito

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Also the Bible says that marriage is to be one man and one wife,


Actually, it doesn't explicitly come out and say that. The qualifications for elders and deacons states that they are to be the husband of one wife, but there isn't a general statement for all Christians.

However, that said...

There's still the law of the land. Currently, laws in most countries in Europe and the Americas prohibit polygamy. Going against these laws would be going against God-given authority in an area in which we wouldn't be disobeying God by following the law.

To the OP:

This man is teaching in a Baptist school?? How can he NOT agree that our lives (and our marriages) are to glorify God??

There's the Ephesians 5 principle about how our marriages are a reflection of the union between Christ and the Church. Is Christ united to more than one Church? Is the Church united to more than one Christ? No - one Christ, one Church. And the reflection of that is one husband, one wife.


I cor 7 v 2
...let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband.
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